Growth With More Understanding, Not More Judgement
A model for understanding yourself, creating new meaning, and moving through life with more awareness, connection, and care.
The Growing Self Model
The Growing Self Model is a way of understanding how we grow, change, and make meaning.
It sees each person as a living system shaped by experience, emotion, relationships, instinct, identity, and choice. Through the image of an inner landscape, the model helps make invisible patterns easier to see.
It invites you to understand why certain reactions, beliefs, and patterns formed — not with shame, but with curiosity.
Growth is not about becoming someone else. It is about creating new meaning, moving with more awareness, and making room for the person you are still becoming.
From Storm to Movement
When the inner landscape feels stormy, it can be hard to see clearly or move freely. The system may tighten around old patterns, familiar fears, or survival responses.
The Expanding Currents help create movement again. They invite curiosity, connection, expression, action, creativity, and choice as ways to open space inside the storm.
Growth begins when the landscape has room to breathe.
Growth is not about becoming a perfect version of yourself. It is not about finding everything that is wrong and turning your life into a project.
Here, growth means learning to understand your inner world with more compassion and clarity. It means noticing the meanings you have carried, the patterns that helped you survive, and the new directions that may be ready to form.
The Growing Self is a model for seeing yourself as a living system, not a problem to solve. If you would like to learn more, complete the form below to continue.
Who I Am
Hello, I’m Chad.
The Growing Self Model came from years of working with people and trying to understand what helps us feel more connected to ourselves and our lives.
My path has taken me through psychology, counseling, service work, and many different life experiences. I studied psychology at Kent State, volunteered in the Peace Corps in Kyrgyzstan, and earned my Master’s in Mental Health Counseling from Nova Southeastern University. As a licensed clinician, I looked for disorder. The Growing Self is not about labels or fixing what is “wrong.” This is not a treatment for mental health issues. This is about growth and caring for what is already alive within you.
The Growing Self Model is built around a simple belief: people are not problems to solve. We are living systems shaped by experience, meaning, relationships, survival, and growth.
My hope is to help you understand yourself with more care and less judgment, to make sense of what has shaped you, and to find new ways of growing that feel grounded, honest, and your own.
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